Wednesday, May 25, 2022

My last post, with love and gratitude

 Goodbye to Writing!

Thank you for everything 
you have done for me!

FROM the day I was born I have had a fortunate life, interspersed with a lot of pain and grief but for a kid who was forced to leave school at 12, it has indeed been a fortunate life. I who was born with nothing, who had nothing, was sustained by the goodness of the people I met on life’s many and differing paths. Seychellois, Mauritians, Somalis, Bohranas, Swahilis, Arabs, Indians of every ilk, Pakistanis (Muslims, we used to call them), Europeans and indigenous Africans. It was not until I met a bunch of guys called the Jokers that I got to know the Goan club crowd. It was a blessing in many ways because I made life-long friends.

Before I met and got to know the Goans again, I was lost in a paradise of my own: journalism. I was completely consumed and success came quickly which fuelled my appetite and dedication even more.

I would finish work at Midnight and head for the nightclubs to check out the music scene or the club scenes at the Sombrero Club which was a strip joint, or the Starlight club which had the barbecue (nyama choma) setting in Nairobi at the time. The owner, Robbie Armstrong was a sports fanatic and a great buddy of journalists. He was generous to a fault.

Some nights I would hop into Guy Spencer’s old car and drive to Nakuru, Eldoret or anywhere with a good breakfast place. The old Wagon Wheel Hotel in Eldoret was a favourite because we thought their breakfasts (including delicious cold-pressed tongue) and bread straight from the oven were our favourite.

I could never have imagined the life I was leading: meeting budding politicians who were to become independent Kenya’s first leaders, sportsmen, especially athletes who promised the earth which was delivered many years later with gold, silver, and bronze medals on the world’s greatest stages. I had never played hockey. Our school did not have that facility, in fact, there was no facility for any sport. Once I got to understand the intricacies of the game (thanks to Oscar D’Souza, we would debate various aspects till the early hours of the morning.) As a sports reporter, life was heaven, meeting players and athletes who in any developed country would be superstars. These were gifts that I could never have imagined. And then into politics, police rounds, Parliament, travelling Africa and the world, special features, one exclusive after another. As long as I was a journalist (journalists never really retire, sometimes they downsize their participation) life was a kind of paradise.

I also got to know musicians of all skins and colours around the country. I was MC-ing dances from the age of around 14, especially the Seychellois dances which were something special.

My God has been particularly generous to me, especially in Australia. After working with the Sydney Morning Herald, The Australian, The St George and Sutherland Shire Leader in senior positions, I changed tack and took on the position of communications and community relations manager with emergency response in any incident being the priority. I had to learn a whole new industry, oil refining with all the public issues, environmental controls, accidents and negative emissions in the refinery. I had a ball because I had a great team of senior people to work with.

Australia also gave me the chance to produce once the longest publishing Indian newspaper in English with the paper’s founders Nina and Vijay Badhwar: The Indian Down Under. Sadly, it survives online, a fate suffered by many mastheads throughout the country.

Newspapers in the traditional form are dead or nearly dead.

Australia also gave me the chance to publish four books. Yesterday in Paradise, Stars Next Door, Yesterday at the Nation (limited print edition) and Twilight of The Exiles.

The great gift in my life, besides my own family and my extended family, have been the friends I have made along the journey. I will always be grateful for that.

I was planning my final book but I think I have failed in that endeavour and it is time to cancel my subscription to the MS Word, the Adobe suites and all the other associated online programs and downsize my online life.

SO I am not going to be writing any new stories unless, of course, you would like to do an online interview Q&A style to tell me your story or you would like to send me a Word version of whatever you would like me to publish on my blog.

I would like to continue publishing Death and Funeral notices as well as eulogies and tributes with photos. However, research will be a thing of the past. The Facebook page will still be there as well as the blog, but not updated too often.

I was hoping to achieve the magical figure of One Million times stories in my blog have been read by you good people but I may have to settle for around 800,000 by the end of the year. No mean feat and it will be only and all thanks to you all. God Bless. 

THANK YOU, AHSANTE SANA:  Here are some of the people who helped along my recent journeys. Andi, Leon and Carl, Johnny and Matilda Fernandes, Johnny and Maura Lobo,  Melisaa Bailey, John Costabir, Cliff Pereira, Vivek Menezes, Frederick Noronha, Benegal Pereira, Heather-Gale D’Souza, Paloma Fernandes, Gilbert Fernandes, the late Steve Fernandes, Felix Nazareth Joe Antao, Joe D’Souza, the late Mike Parry, Norman da Costa, Silu Fernandes, Hilary Fernandes, Ashi Chand, Jerry Lobo, Patrick Martins, Tony Reg D’Souza, Leo and Gerry Rodrigues, Lyndon Abreu, Claire Leather, Olaf Ribeiro, late Eddie Rodrigues, John Noronha, Astrid Fernandes, Mitelia Paul, Joe Desa, Juliette de Menezes, Alex Fernandes, Braz Menezes, Mervyn Maciel, Francis Noronha, Alhussein Namajee, Juliet Rebello, Adrian Grimwood, Shirley Gonsalves, Alvira Almeida, Cyrilla Rodrigues, Michael Owuor, John Kamau,  Oscar D’Souza, Emilian Joanes, Malcolm Monteiro, Des Fortes, Drake Shikhule, Merwin D’Souza, Mona Dias, Rowland Rebello, Edwin and Ivy De Souza, Sultan Somjee, Michael Fernandes (Mombasa), Alcino Rodrigues, Hartman de Souza, Armand Rodrigues, Zulema Collacco, Nisha Albuquerque, Michelle Lobo, John Nazareth, Bertha Fernandes, Edgar Fernandes, the late Ray Batchelor, Edmund Silveira, Jessel Mandricks, Terence Pinto, Celia Mascarenhas, the late Dr Fitz D’Souza, the late Sister Trifa de Souza, Meldrita Laurente Viegas, Maureen D’Mello D’Souza, the late Blaise D’Cunha, Walter Fernandes, the late Crescenti Fernandes, the late John J. De Souza, the late Bill Pagano, Mel D’Souza … and if I have missed out anyone please blame it on short-term memory loss. These are some of the people who have been of help and advice in recent years, there are many thousands more from 1956 to 2007 whose names I can't remember, too many to mention here, too many who have gone to their Maker.



  1. You and your lively writings are going to be sorely missed by us all.
    Thanks for all you've done for us, the Goans of East Africa.
    Love and thanks for being a true nfriend.

  2. I like reading your stories you will be missed



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