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Thursday, September 28, 2023

IN LOVING MEMORY OF MYRA D'SOUZA

 


IN LOVING MEMORY



May 1st 1936 - September 20th, 2023

Maria (Myra) Rita D'Souza

(ex Nairobi ) Toronto, Canada

We wish to share our great loss of Maria Rita (Myra) D'Souza on Wednesday, September 20th, 2023.

She was the beloved wife for 62 years to Osborne D'Souza. Myra was the daughter of the late Florian/Lily Jacques (Ex Nairobi) and sister to the late Savio Jacques/ Philomena, late Pamela/ and late Timothy D'Souza.

Myra passed away at home in the loving presence of Osborne and Hayley, after saying the Rosary. Myra is survived by her daughters Glynnis, Hayley/Peter Abreo, and Oriel/Vincent Noronha.

Mama will be cherished and adored by her grandchildren: Myles, Tyler, Jade and Mateo.

Myra will be greatly missed by all her loving and extended family and extended family and will be fondly remembered by her nieces, nephews and god-children in Canada and abroad.


FUNERAL DETAILS

Friday, October 6, 2023

Turner and Porter Funeral Home

2180 Hurontario Street, Mississauga, L5B IM8

Viewing times: 2-4 pm, 7-9 pm.


FUNERAL MASS

Will be held on Saturday, October 7, 2023, at 11am

at St Francis Xavier Catholic Church

560 Mavis Road, Mississauga L5V 2X5

Live stream: Google St Francis Xavier Catholic Church

Click on the website, click on the live stream. Unmute the speaker/Microphone icon on the bottom left corner.

Followed by a Reception at

St Francis Xavier Church Hall, Main Floor



For those wanting to send their personal condolences to Osborne his address is as follows. He does not have an email address but feel free to direct your messages to him via his daughter Oriel whose email address is as below.

Take care and God Bless
Very sincerely
Philomena Jacques.


Osborne D'Souza
908-45 Kingsbridge Garden Circle
Mississauga, Ontrio
L5R 3K4
Phone: 905-568-4634

Oriel Noronha's email address


Friday, September 22, 2023

 

The Seychelles – nature’s masterpiece

The Seychelles – nature’s masterpiece
  • PublishedApril 19, 2023

The Seychelles archipelago remains one of nature’s masterpieces and its unique history has produced a fascinatingly diverse population and culture. Audrey Donkor is your guide to these fabulous islands.

The Seychelles archipelago lies in the Indian Ocean, off the East Coast of Africa and north of Madagascar. The archipelago is Africa’s smallest country, with a total land area of 460 sq km and a population of 100,447 (according to the country’s 2022 census).  

Most visitors flock to the islands for their beauty, stunning beaches and their unique culture and lifestyle. For nature lovers, the powdery, smooth white sands of Anse Lazio beach on Praslin Island and the giant, granitic boulders on La Digue Island’s Anse Source d’Argent beach will leave you gaping. But Seychelles offers more than just idle days sipping sundowners. The country is a lesson in merging the past and present, conserving nature and blending people and cultures. 

The islands were first claimed by the French, who began settling there from 1770 with enslaved people from Mozambique, Madagascar, Mauritius, Réunion and India. In 1811, the British took over control of the archipelago and ruled until Seychelles gained independence in 1976. 

Over time, the mix of Europeans and Africans with traders from China and India spawned Seychelles’ multiethnic population and led to the development of the Seychellois Creole language – a blend of 17th-century French with words from English, Bantu languages, Malagasy and Hindi. Seychellois Creole is the most widely spoken language in the Seychelles and is also a national language, together with French and English. 

The Mission Lodge on Mahé, Seychelles’ most populated island, memorialises Seychelles’ prominence as a destination for the resettlement and integration of enslaved people who were freed from British ships and Arab dhows following the abolition of slavery across the British Empire in 1834. 

The site was the location of the Venn’s Town industrial school, where the Anglican Mission accommodated and taught children of both freed African slaves and African labourers from 1876-89. The children learnt carpentry, gardening and bible stories, and sang psalms. Ruins of the school are still present at the Mission Lodge. 

The site is located on Morne Seychellois, Seychelles’ highest peak at 905m. From a gazebo, visitors can take in breathtaking views of the verdant mountains that make up Mahé and extend toward the sea. Mission Lodge’s location as part of the Morne Seychellois National Park also offers visitors the chance to explore several of the endemic plant and animal species that Seychelles is renowned for as a biodiversity hotspot.

Nature lovers can further explore Seychelles’ indigenous plants at Le Jardin du Roi, a privately-owned spice garden in the Anse Royale district of Mahé. The 25-hectare garden is modelled on the 18th-century plantations the French cultivated in their tropical colonies for the spice trade, and is on the actual site of a spice garden that was burned down in the 18th century. 

Le Jardin du Roi is also partially a botanical garden and nature reserve. Visitors can take self-guided walks or scheduled tours along rows of plants, including vanilla vines; lemongrass bushes; cinnamon, rose apple and lipstick trees; as well as traditional Seychellois medicinal herbs. The garden is home to several of Seychelles’ Aldabra giant tortoises, which can weigh up to 250kg and have been documented to live longer than 150 years.

Unique food and drink

Of course, no tour of an island can be complete without a bottle of rum. Seychelles cleverly hosts the headquarters of the Takamaka Rum Distillery (another private commercial enterprise) at La Plaine St André, a refurbished plantation house built in 1792 that is a national heritage site. 

The distillery offers guided tours of the site, which is located in the Au Cap district of Mahé. Tourists learn about the rum-making process, from the procurement of sugarcane or molasses to their fermentation and distillation, and there is then a tasting of a selection of the distillery’s rums. 

An onsite museum details the history of Seychelles. And the overarching bilimbi trees on the site’s beautiful gardens provide a relaxing setting for savouring the distillery’s delightful cocktails.

The flavourful rums and cocktails might whet your appetite. Luckily, tourists can enjoy some traditional Creole dishes at Maison Marengo, just about a kilometre away in Au Cap. The restaurant is on the site of La Domaine de Val des Pres, a restored traditional Creole village that is also a national heritage site. 

Popular choices are octopus curry and prawn curry, taken with passion fruit juice. The curries are made by cooking octopus tentacles or prawns in spicy Creole masala and coconut milk, and are served with rice and chutney. Seychelles’ cuisine is influenced by the country’s multiethnic make-up.

Prehistoric palm forest

Most tourists visit more than one island in the Seychelles. Praslin, the second most populated island, is a major draw largely because it is the location of the Vallée de Mai, a prehistoric palm forest and UNESCO World Heritage Site, where the legendary endemic coco de mer palm grows. 

The large seed of the female coco de mer can weigh more than 20kg and is the world’s heaviest seed. It bears an astounding resemblance to the pelvic region of a human female, while the long catkin of the male coco de mer curiously takes the likeness of a human phallus.

Travel between the islands is fairly simple. The ride from Mahé to Praslin by catamaran ferry takes an hour. Returning from Praslin to Mahé by Air Seychelles’ Twin Otter aircraft takes 15 minutes, offering splendid views of the blue and green waters below and the islands between Mahé and Praslin that together comprise the Sainte Anne Marine National Park.

And if you aren’t satisfied by all these thrills, then you might want to embark on a hunt for the buried treasure of French pirate Olivier Levasseur, estimated to be worth $150m!  


courtesy of New African Magazine

Thursday, September 21, 2023

The Fernandes dynasty

 

Winning in sport and in life

Inspired by Mum and Dad

(Family of the late Bernard Lazarus and Lourdinha Costa-Fernandes family)

(One priest eleven doctors)

The parents: Lourdinha and Lazarus Bernard Fernandes

The siblings: Astrid Fernandes, Yasmin Fernandes, Lactancio Fernandes Joana Fernandes Lobo, Mitelia Fernandes Paul


TEAM FERNANDES: MiteliaFernandes Paul (NBCT) (USA Board Certified Teacher) Joana Fernandes Lobo, Astrid Fernandes, Yasmin Fernandes,Lieutenant Colonel US Air Force Lactancio da Nelva Fernandes USA

 

Father Vicente Caetano da Costa (ordained 1888) Chapel of St Lawrence Arrossim, Goa.

Fr Vicente was Lourdinha’s grand uncle.

 

Joseph Fernandes,

Jamie Lobo,

Sharon Lobo,

Allan Lobo, Officer Ivan D'Souza

Dr Rowan Paul USA

Dr Raina Paul USA

Faye Fernandes JD USA

Dr Paul Fernandes USA

Dr Victoria Fernandes USA

Dr Diane Fernandes USA

Dr George Verghese (Dr Raina Paul’s husband)

Dr Erica Leo USA (Dr Paul Fernandes’ wife)

Dr Scott.

 

 

The Kenya women’s hockey team with the late Prime Minister of India, Indira Gandhi.

Standing 3rd left Teresa Mendonca Mandricks

Standing 4th right Mitelia Fernandes Paul

Standing 6th right Ivy Monteiro

Kneeling....2nd right Melba Almeida D'Souza.



Father: Nuvem, Salcette

Mother: Arossim, Salcette


Lazarus Bernard Fernandes was born in Zanzibar in 1902.  Tragically his father died when Lazarus was only two. According to Mitelia: “Our grandfather was surveying some property with some British chaps. They were all riding along, when they came upon an African fellow lying, mourning on the ground. Our grandfather, who was super compassionate, decided to dismount his horse and check the man out. The British fellows urged him incessantly not to do this.” Why? Because smallpox was prevalent in the country. Well, our grandfather got infected with smallpox and died in Zanzibar. His widow returned to Goa with two children, Lazarus who was 2 years old and the other child, Anthony who was only 8 months old. According to the family, his widow Maria Piedade had to take her two kids to GOA. She lived with her relatives from then on.

 

Their dad’s father Luis Antonio Fernandes had come to Africa in the early 1800s. He was certainly a pioneer at only 20-something years of age. Very few Goans had ventured into the dark continent during those early years.

 

Lazarus Bernard Fernandes returned to Africa in 1918 at the age of 16. He obviously had the spirit of adventure or Zanzibar had made a deep impression on him, albeit at a very tender age. It was not long before he was working for the East African Railways and Harbours, after all, he was a bit of a whiz at maths and accounts clerks and the like were in great demand.

 

Mitelia told me: “By the way, he loved learning so much, he was determined to reach the heights in English.  He used to read the newspaper and seek out the meanings of ALL unknown words in the dictionary. He became proficient in English. When he taught us essay writing we were in for a very CHALLENGING time with him. Similarly, with Maths  He taught us Indian maths shortcuts in problem solving.  Interestingly enough, I taught all my kids, grandkids, and the school kids his methods as a backup method.  The usual comments were from many of my students ..."Your dad's method is so easy, why do we have to learn the other hard method?  My dad could speak nine languages, all self-taught!"

 

He saved his money, went back to GOA after five years and bought a property in Nuvem for his family to live in. He married Lourdhinia, spent some time in Goa and returned to Kenya in 1941. In those pioneering early days, life was not easy but some of those early families toughed it out and made good.

 



 

THIRD FROM LEFT Teresa Mandricks, 6th from right Ivy Monteiro (manager) fourth right Dr Mitelia Paul (Fernandes) standing next to coach Mahan Singh, second right Melba Ameida D'Souza … with the late Indian Prime Minister Indira Gandhi hosting the East African Hockey team.



THE late Lazarus Fernandes, a pioneer Goan,  a dedicated sportsman and a man with great political foresight and quick to grasp the intricacies of life’s shifting sands, was quick to inspire his children (Lt Colonel Dr Lactancio Fernandes US Air Force, Joan Lobo (Fernandes), Astrid Diane Fernandes, Dr Mitelia Fernandes Paul and Yasmin Fernandes in achieving some of the highest awards available in sport, education and in their chosen fields of employment.

Lazarus Fernandes was one of the pioneer founders of the unforgettable Dr Ribeiro Goan School. He did this with his friend, the enigmatic Dr A.C.L De Sousa and other like-thinking Goans. To this day, while there may not be any Goans in the school, it remains a permanent monument to the foresight and courage of Goans, now long with their Maker and others waiting in their wings. Lazarus Fernandes served on the Dr Ribeiro Goan School Board of Governors for many years.

Lazarus was also a founder member of the original Nairobi Railway Goan Institute (later the Railway Institute for political reasons, and now no more) and the Nairobi Goan Institute in its formative years.

Needless to say, Mr Fernandes was a dedicated sportsman … even in his seventies. He excelled in tennis, soccer, badminton and cricket in both Kenya and Canada. His daughter Mitelia Paul Fernandes excelled in track and field, badminton and field hockey in Kenya and Canada, reaching representative heights.  Dr Lactancio Fernandes excelled in track and field and soccer in England.

Mr Fernandes also convinced his wife to take up various sports  in Kenya and Canada. Yasmin Fernandes and Joan Lobo played field hockey and badminton in Kenya and Canada. Likewise, Dr Mitelia Paul (Fernandes) succeeded in reaching to the top in track and field, badminton and field hockey at all levels in Kenya and Canada.

Mitelia’s passions were track and field and hockey. It all began with their dad getting Mitelia, her sister Astrid and other siblings to run to the RGI pavilion and back to the club house. These were the first steps on their road to athletics success, with each winning the school championships as juniors and open seniors and followed this up with successes at the RGI and Nairobi Goan Institute.


Astrid went on to join the Spartans Field and Track group where she met (the late) Nifa and Trifa D’Souza and Bertha Fernandes, all brilliant sprinters. Sister Trifa hogged the running tracks around Kenya for many years. She will never be forgotten.

Soon Stanley De Souza (brother of the legendary men’s hockey coach Anthony De Souza) took on the task of forming the first all-girls hockey team with little or no facilities and, yet he succeeded in training many of his charges achieving some of the highest recognition in the country by representing Kenya, just a few brown faces in a sea of whites. Astrid also played in the Kenya hockey seconds. Astrid was an awesome sprinter, being among the top in 100 and 220 yards. She was brilliantly competitive.

Mitelia recalls: “I represented Kenya for many years as a left winger and later as inside left. Getting into a team dominated by white women on and off the field was tough. However, I cracked that nut and forced my way into the team. In the 1960s four Goan girls: Bertha Fernandes, Melba Almeida, Teresa Mandricks and Mitelia Fernandes earned national caps. The Goans were part of the Kenya teams that played against England, International Wanderers, USA, Japan, India, Ceylon (Sri Lanka), Holland, Uganda and other national teams.

“The highlight for a combined Kenya/Uganda team was a tour of India and playing the All-India Championships and playing in New Delhi, Mumbai and cities in the Punjab. However, the highlight of the tour was being invited to tea with the Prime Minister of India the late Indira Gandhi.”

It was not long before Mitelia left for Canada, preparing the way for the rest of the family to migrate there as well. In Canada, her father joined similarly minded Goans in founding the Toronto Goan Overseas Association which I think is a shining light for similar associations around the world. The rest of the family continued doing what they did best, playing sports and succeeding in their chosen fields.

 

The first and only Kenya women’s hockey team toured India. Mitelia Fernandes told me she would never forget the trip. “What a memory... a great hockey experience and trip. They took us to the foothills of the Himalayas, and we toured and played to full arenas around all of Punjab. Next, we went to Bombay and, of course, we played in Delhi. Too bad we did not get to GOA. All expenses were paid by Kenya Government. We were so fortunate to have this experience. We always reminisce about our trip.”

 

During her playing career, Mitelia scored 308 goals over 27 years.

For Kenya/East Africa 30 goals

Ontario Provincial team and Canadian Masters 33

School/Club level 245.

 

In Mitelia’s own words: “I began playing competitive hockey in school and finished in 1968 playing for Kenya. I continued playing in the USA and Canada from 1968-1986 when I became a work-sports-mum and retired from teaching (Kenya, Canada, USA) in 2015 after 50 years.”

 


Tuesday, September 19, 2023

Roger Whittaker's Kenya roots



Scott (Marsabit) House prefects -- 1954. Roger Whittaker, the song writer and musician standing first from the left: source http://www.oldcambrians.com/photos- Scott Prefects 1954.html.

The Whittaker's grocery store once stood where The Mall Westlands stands today. There was one at the Spring Valley Shopping Centre as well.

Roger Whittaker's dad, Edward 'Ted' Whittaker later sold Slater and Whittaker Ltd to Mr Vinodlal Chagnilal Ruparel. As fate would have it both owners of this business were murdered by robbers  in their homes almost 20 years apart, 1989 and 2010 in Spring Valley and Westlands Road respectively.

Slate and Whittaker is now by Mr Ruparel's sons Tilak and Roop.

(thanks for the tip Drake)

 

Roger Whitaker dead at 87




Roger Whittaker,
 Durham Town folk singer, who was also widely known for his expert whistling, has died at the age of 87. Roger was one of Kenya's favourite singers. He was also a great friend of the late journalist Mike Parry who knew Roger's Kenya family very well. I had the privilege of meeting Roger on several occasions including one before and and after his Sydney concerts. A very special gentle man.

His other singles were The Last Farewell and New World in the Morning, and according to his website, he sold close to 50 million records worldwide.He began performing in folk clubs before finding fame in 1986 with a duet with Des O'Connor called the Skye Boat Song.

He could sing in a variety of languages.

He was able to appeal to a large audience because to their inclusion of German and French, notably in Germany where he was quite well-liked.

His parents, who were English citizens from Staffordshire, were born in Nairobi, Kenya. He was born there in 1936.

Whittaker went to medical school after serving in the military in Kenya.

He performed in local clubs and wrote his own songs while pursuing his degree.



However, he dropped out of his medical program after 18 months and switched to teaching. In order to earn his teaching certification, he moved to the University of Bangor in Wales in 1959.

He wrote some songs when he was there for university Rag Week, and he also sent a sample recording to a music publisher.

"Before he knew it, Roger was back in the studio recording his first single, The Charge of the Light Brigade," his biography stated.

While he was still a student, his subsequent album, Steel Men, received airplay, which propelled his career forward and led to TV work.

In 2012, he and his wife Natalie retired to France.  (BBC et al)


Friday, September 15, 2023

Alfred Vienna, My Grandfather

 



ALFRED VIENNA, MY GRANDFATHER

 


  THE eulogy delivered by Marc Mwai Kibaki at his grandfather Alfred Vienna’s memorial Mass is the embodiment of a grandson’s pure love for his grandfather. Marc is an eloquent speaker, a trait he inherited from his paternal grandfather, the late President of Kenya, Mwai Kibaki, and, of course, his strong relationship with Alfred shines through. I would like to think that young Marc is going places, at least, he was born to succeed. With his words, he brings to life the Alfred Vienna that some of us might have forgotten, robbed by the passing years and time apart. Please enjoy and share it.

 

 In Loving Memory

 

8th February, 1939 – 24th August, 2023

 

Ladies and gentlemen, family and friends, we gather here today to honour and celebrate Alfred Vienna's incredible life, a man whose journey through time touched the lives of many and left an imprint on our hearts. As we say goodbye to this wonderful man, we also recognise the profound loss that his passing brings.

Born on the 8th of February 1939, in Ganjoni, Mombasa, Alfred Vienna was the embodiment of strength, resilience, and dedication. As the second child of Mannuel and Anne Vianna, he grew up amid a bustling household alongside his siblings - Xavier (deceased), Ernest, Hellen (deceased), Zeena, Monique, Monty (deceased), and Manu. It was within this loving family that the seeds of unity, compassion, and loyalty were sown, laying the foundation for his remarkable life that would unfold.

Alfred showcased a remarkable combination of resilience and genuine talent from his earliest years. He became a shining example of athletic excellence after flourishing in sports both during and after his studies. His exceptional ability in Shot Put and Discus propelled him to represent Kenya on the prestigious stages of the All-Africa Games and the Commonwealth Games, representing Kenya alongside his close friend and Kenya's first double Gold medallist, Seraphino Antao. These achievements were more than simply physical marvels; they demonstrated his permanent commitment to excellence.

Alfred's journey progressed as he committed himself to the service of this nation. His tenure in the Kenya Regiment, which now stands as part of the Kenya Defence Forces, marked the commencement of a lifelong dedication to the betterment of his country. In 1959, he transitioned to the civil service as a District Officer, embarking on a journey that would come to span several decades. Through his roles as a District Officer, he traversed the length and breadth of Kenya, from Lodwar to Ngong, Kangundo to Malindi, Voi to Kilifi, Machakos, and back to Voi, carrying with him his commitment to duty and service. Immersing himself in the diverse cultures and needs that painted the mosaic of his beloved homeland.

During his tenure in Malindi, fate intervened when he met the love of his life, Eileen while serving as a District Officer, in Malindi. Their union was blessed on the 26th of January 1963, and their love story became a beacon of inspiration for all who knew them. Together, they navigated the waters of life, sharing not only joys but also facing challenges with a united front. Alfred and Eileen would go on to have two children, Sheryl and Alister and later Alfred's courage knew no bounds, this exemplified by his daring act of leaping from a helicopter into floodwaters to rescue a life, an act of heroism that earned him the prestigious distinguished service medal.

1966 brought Alfred back to Mombasa, where he assumed the role of personal assistant to the esteemed Provincial Commissioner, Elluid Mahihu. In 1968, his journey led him to Nairobi, to the Ministry of Natural Resources, which in turn paved the way to the Ministry of Finance in 1969. Through his steadfast dedication and unrelenting work ethic, Alfred ascended the ranks, ultimately achieving the esteemed position of Director of External Aid, in the Ministry of Finance in 1978.

Throughout his distinguished career in the civil service, Alfred remained a steadfast pillar of devotion to his nation's growth and development. His ascent within the Ministry of Finance stood as a testament to his expertise and tireless commitment. As a representative of Kenya on the global stage, Alfred spent three impactful years with the World Bank in Washington. During this period, he rubbed shoulders with eminent figures, such as the late President Mwai Kibaki, Dr Munyua Waiyaki, and Kenneth Matiba, further broadening his perspective on global affairs. However, it was Alfred's ability to bridge gaps between generations and cultures that truly set him apart. His capacity to forge genuine connections with individuals of all backgrounds left a lasting impression on all those fortunate enough to cross his path.

In the years that followed, Alfred's journey continued with numerous transfers to ministries that spanned water, agriculture, constitutional affairs, energy, and ultimately back to the treasury. His commitment to his country's growth was unparalleled. During this time in capacity as the Deputy Executive Director of the Parastatal Privatization Committee he oversaw the privatization of significant entities, such as Uchumi Supermarkets and Kenya Airways, leaving an undeniable imprint on the nation's economic landscape.

At the age of 55, in 1994, Alfred retired from the civil service after dedicating 35 years of his life to the service of Kenya. His contributions to the nation were immeasurable, and his legacy as a mentor, a leader, and a friend is deeply ingrained in the hearts of those he touched.

While Alfred's professional achievements were impressive, Alfred found solace and joy in his passions. An avid golfer and a member of Karen Golf Club and Sigona Golf Club, he balanced his commitment to physical fitness with a penchant for socializing. His sisters affectionately dubbed him "Mr. Universe," a testament to his dedication to maintaining his health and vitality. His magnetic personality allowed him to transcend age and ethnicity, forming connections that lasted a lifetime. His personal qualities truly endeared him to those around him. He was a mentor, a friend, a listener, and an advisor. His memory was a treasure trove of experiences, his wisdom a guiding light for many. His jovial spirit and ability to forge connections made him a cherished figure in various circles, whether on the golf course, in social gatherings, or within his community.

The passing of his beloved Eileen in 2021 cast a shadow over Alfred's world, altering its contours irreversibly. While he faced his grief with characteristic resilience, the weight of his loss was palpable. Now, on the 24th of August, 2023, Alfred Vienna embarks on a new journey, reuniting with his cherished wife in a realm beyond our reach.

Alfred leaves behind a legacy defined by unwavering dedication, boundless compassion, and unyielding strength. His 35-year service to his nation has left an indelible mark on Kenya's growth story. His memory shall persist through the lives he touched, the wisdom he imparted, and the connections he fostered. As we bid farewell today, let us not mourn a life concluded, but rather, celebrate a life lived with purpose—a life dedicated to God, country, family, and friends.

May Alfred Vienna's soul find eternal rest, reuniting with his beloved Eileen. May his story continue to inspire us to strive for excellence, to build enduring relationships, and to serve our nations with unwavering commitment. In celebrating his memory, we honour the very essence of humanity's potential for virtuousness and compassion. As we weave his legacy into our own stories, may his light guide us on our journeys for generations to come.

As we celebrate Alfred's life today, let us remember the legacy he leaves behind. A legacy of service, of love, of friendship, and of unwavering commitment to his country, his family, and his faith. In the tapestry of his existence, he wove threads of kindness, compassion, and strength that will continue to inspire us for generations to come.

May Alfred Vienna's soul find eternal peace, reunited with his beloved Eileen, and may his memory remain alive in our hearts as we continue our own journeys, guided by the light of his remarkable life.




 

 

 

 


Thursday, September 14, 2023

Benny Mascarenhas In Memoriam

 







Benny Mascarenhas

Born 31.3.1948 Died 24.9.2021.

A special tune of beautiful memories heard with a million tears,

with a wish that God could have spared you for a few more years.

I cannot bring the old days back, when we shared so much together,

my heart is broken now but our love lives on forever ❤️.

It was a sudden passing, too bitter to forget,

and only those who know you well,

are the ones who won't forget.

The blow was hard, the shock severe,

to part with you I loved so dear.

My loss is great, but I can't complain

cause I trust and know we'll meet again.

With my love on your 2nd death anniversary.

Love always Cecilia.

 

Hello

Attached is Benny's 2nd death anniversary memoriam card instead of posting a card to you.

I know when Benny was around in the past, we have kept in touch more often,  but I wanted to connect & share his 2nd death anniversary now the inquest is over.  Thankfully the Coroner ruled in my favour.

 

I also wanted to inform you that I will be in Toronto hosting a memorial for Benny on the 24th Sept with his band mates, some of the classmates and friends.  Leaving early tomorrow morning..  hence sending now! Ahem

 

A donation will be made to The Roy Castle Lung Foundation. 

This is now a perpetual Donation/memory page in his memory to keep this worthy cause going that has helped many with lung & other cancers that I know he would be pleased as he has always helped everyone best way he could and I want to keep his memory alive someway by helping others.

You can add a thought or memory as I would appreciate this very much.     You do not have to donate either – entirely up to you.   I just want to keep all the memories of my Benny on record to view and share with all who visit the page.   Some of you have….Thank you!

https://benjamin-mascarenhas.muchloved.com/

The happiness we seek isn’t found in things, places or possessions.  It’s in the people we love, who care and the memories we made and make as life changing times that ignite our souls, that’s the stuff I will always carry with me. And if you think I’m strong or things don’t bring me down, you’d be wrong.  I get knocked down, have bad days, make mistakes but I'm learning.  I have now put my beloved Benny to Rest in Peace. 

Please say a prayer for him 🙏

Sincerely & in sorrow

Cecilia.

PS   enjoy my Benny twanging with the rest of the Shiftars in 1998…their 50th!


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RIEP Carlito Mascarenhas

    CARLOS (CARLITO) MASCARENHAS   MAY 24, 1937 - JULY 16, 2024 Carlito pictured between the two Sikhs at the top It is with a sad heart and...